Episodes

What if the real reason you overspend, avoid your bank account, or stay stuck isn’t about discipline—but about old wounds? Doug Lynam (Marine → Benedictine monk → money manager) unpacks how “Sacred Wounds” quietly drive our money choices and why willpower-based budgeting so often fails. You’ll learn how the Enneagram reveals your predictable financial blind spots—and what to do instead. Expect practical takeaways, surprising self-awareness, and a path to real change. Ask Good Questions is broad...

What if your greatest financial legacy is the wisdom you share? Young financial planner & podcast host Skyler Fleming joins Bonita to help grandparents & parents teach the next generation how to thrive with money. Using simple object lessons, see what it means to pay yourself first, turn a 401(k) match into “free money,” & why you put the “big rocks” in your life first. You’ll walk away with practical conversations, stories, & hands-on ideas you can use with your kids & grandkids this week. Ask...

Scammers are getting smarter! Robert Siciliano, CEO of Protect Now & a go-to experts on cybercrime & identity theft, breaks down how criminals actually operate & what you can do to shut them down. You’ll learn to recognize red flags in emails, texts, & phone calls, build safer passwords, & avoid social media traps. Whether you’re retired, or helping parents navigate the digital world, you’ll walk away with practical tools to protect both your finances & your future. Email me at bonita@tencap.com...

When a marriage ends—through divorce or death—you are suddenly forced to make financial decisions you never expected. In this episode, our financial advisors walk through the core money principles that help widows & divorcees rebuild with confidence: paying yourself first, spending within your means, limiting debt, & wills & estates. You’ll learn what to prioritize in the first year, how to think about taxes and investments, & why purposeful generosity can be part of a healthy new beginning. As...

If you’ve wondered whether you should claim early “just in case,” or you’ve felt overwhelmed by shifting taxes, rules and headlines, you’re not alone. Bonita & guest Marcia Mantell—known for turning technical retirement concepts into tangible guidance—break down how recent Social Security changes can impact YOU. This conversation will help you ask better questions, verify your assumptions, and build a more confident plan around your benefits. Ask Good Questions is broadcast live Wednesdays at 6...

What do you do when you’ve tried everything, your body is failing, and you’re preparing to say goodbye? Antoinette Lee shares how she rebuilt her health and identity through natural medicine, outdoor recreation, and the decision to create a “new normal” rather than accept defeat. If you’re navigating chronic symptoms, burnout, or discouragement, this conversation will help you identify your next best step—and remind you that a vibrant life may still be possible. Ask Good Questions is broadcast ...