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Welcome to to Ask Good Questions Podcasts, broadcasting live every Wednesday,
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six pm Eastern Time on W four CY Radio at
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w four cy dot com. This week and every week,
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we will reach for a higher purpose in money and light,
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as well as a focus on health and wellnent. Now,
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let's join your hosts, Banita Bell Anderson as together we
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start with Asking Good Questions.
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Hello.
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This is Benita Bell Anderson, and thank you so much
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for joining us on the Ask Good Questions podcast. We
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have a phenomenal show today that will be important for
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everyone that's listening, especially those that have not started saving yet.
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So what I'd like to do is invite my guest
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Paul Adams, to the Proverbial podcast stage.
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Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello.
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Paul and I go way back to the dim past.
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We were both working in the financial advising world, and
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I don't even remember how we came across each other,
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but anyway, we did, both of us in Washington State.
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At the time.
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Paul, you're still in the Washington Washington state. I'm going
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to tell him a little bit about you and then
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you can fill him in a little bit more. He
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is the founder and CEO of Sound Financial Group and
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host of the More Than Commas podcast. We're going to
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talk about that little bit more later. He's a seasoned
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financial educator. I've always respected Paul. He's been someone that
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I know helps successful individuals and families make evidence based decisions.
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We're going to talk about that about money while avoiding
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the cultural traps of lifestyle driven spending. So his firm
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is built on the philosophy of dimensional fund advisors, which.
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Me as well.
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We have different paths as far as where we went
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with our financial advising business. But tell us just a
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little bit more about you and your life.
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Well, I think one thing that's unique as we talk
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about financial firm that really is different about us is
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one we went location independent back in twenty seventeen, which
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will lead a little bit in my personal life here
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in a moment. And then we also chose to be
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more like a design build architect, where anybody who engages
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with us pays a feed or retain us for our
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knowledge and our design abilities, and then they get a
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separate choice if they want to implement with us, or
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maybe they want to implement with their nephew that got
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into the industry six months ago, and we are able
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to work with them without them having concern that our
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recommendations are going to be affected by the products, because
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we don't care if they buy the products from our
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firm and have us be the general contractor that builds
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the building, or are they going to go do that
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somewhere else or themselves, which we support. But we went
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and became location independent because my family and I love camping.
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We have in twenty seventeen through twenty twenty two, we
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spent on average eighty two nights a year inside in
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our RV traveling the country, and as an advisor, I
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realized that I still wanted to serve my clients, not
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just be lights out the whole time. So I designed
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a way we could have the business where it doesn't
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matter where our client is or where we are, you
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where you are.
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Well, you know, which is kind of you know, you
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and I have had different paths but in some ways
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very similar because I'm in Hawaii right now, Yeah, serving
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the senior mission with my husband, but I can still
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do my podcast and I'm still you know, in you know,
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involved with my firm and keeping track on what's going on.
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So yeah, So tell us a little bit about your family.
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So married now for going on this year will be
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eighteen years. We have three great kids that by the
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end of this year they'll be thirteen, fourteen, fifteen, and
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they're all born in thirty months. That is to translate
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that for anybody listening, that is five years without a
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break from diapers. Everybody's still in diapers at some point
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over five years. And you know, but on a fun
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life front, and as I've listened to some of your shows,
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it definitely takes a holistic approach to life, not just money.
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So I thought you might appreciate this. My son got
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his driver's permit, but the way it works here is
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you kind of got to get registered for a course,
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and there's several steps. Well, he didn't know they were
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all completed. So when we went to church on Sunday,
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I'm clearing some things out of my passenger seat where
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he normally sits because he likes to ride with me.
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And I got it all cleared out, and I hand
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him a piece of paper and I said, a hold
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on this. You're going to need it. Finished clearing out
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the seat and put all the back seat's like, what
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is this thing? And I handed it in the keys
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and said it's your learner's permit, so get in the car.
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As I got in the passenger seat and just taking
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away any of the anxiety, any of the oh I'm
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gonna be driving on the road, it was just no,
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you've run a lot of equipment, you drive the side
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by side around the property all the time. You're you're fine,
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You're we're gonna go just at the gas station on
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the way to church. I'm only gonna have you drive
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the gas station. And he did it, and it was
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like that that moment where you've got to introduce your
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children to a new level of performance in some way,
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being do so in a way that doesn't trigger any
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of that like build up, and they just realize that
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most things that are new that you do are just
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not that hard to do. That most of the difficulties.
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The stories we tell ourselves are the narratives leading up
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to it.
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Mm hmm, I'm with you.
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I've got grandchildren, Paul, that are getting their drivers permits.
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Twenty three of them, right.
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Twenty three of four yees who would have thought so?
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Yeah, So there are several of them and they're like, Grandma,
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I've got my driver's permit.
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And there's already been a couple of accidents, you know,
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like whoops and so. But yeah, so it's a.
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New level of responsibility too. So yeah, anyway, but that's
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a whole other topic. Today we're going to talk about
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why people are not.
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Saving the way they should be.
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But before we get into our discussion, I have some statistics.
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Most of this is from the Federal Reserve, which was
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I was like, I didn't know the Federal Reserve did studies.
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But they have.
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So this is key statistics on the US retirement savings. Right,
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twenty five percent of Americans have no retirement savings at all.
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Thirty one percent feel very confident they'll have enough to
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retire comfortably. That means that a whole sixty nine percent
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don't feel confident. The median retirement savings for Americans age
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fifty five to sixty four is only one hundred and
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thirty four thousand, and there was a little comment on
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that that amount would generate about five hundred dollars a
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month in retirement assuming a four percent withdrawal rate. So
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you know, however, but by age group, like I have
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my my under thirty five clients I am proud of
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because of course I've also been going, come on, let's
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start savings. But the average under thirty five only has
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about eleven thousand dollars saved, and then it gradually goes
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up to the sixty seventy four year olds that only
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have one hundred and sixty four thousand. So the statistic
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goes into why forty percent of workers aren't even enrolled
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in a retirement plan. Average four to one K balance
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is only about one hundred and twelve five seventy two.
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Forty five percent of baby boomers have no retirement savings whatsoever.
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Thirty four percent of Gen xers say retirement isn't even
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on their radar yet. And the biggest thing that has
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upset me and I but in the end, I can't
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do anything about it. I've tried, tried, tried, But a
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lot of Americans will take money out of their for
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one case, because of something that's going on in life.
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Time. They get cashed out.
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Yeah I know, and it's like, oh man, you need this,
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and but they take those early withdrawals, incurring taxes and penalties,
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and you know, it's just I.
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Just hate it when that happens. Why are they doing this?
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They're living paycheck to paycheck, They're increasing spending instead of
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saving money when they get a raise. And there's they
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also said lack of access to retirement plans.
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I seems like that shouldn't be the case, but I.
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Call baloney sandwich.
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Inability to access.
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Yeah yeah, So, but what they're saying is especially prevalent
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among part time, gig and self employed workers. So yeah,
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you know, I've got a very talented nephew who's a
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sign painter. He's never worked, he's been his own boss
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his whole life.
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But has he saved not really, not really.
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So with those statistics in mind, let's start with the obvious.
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Why don't we Why.
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Don't people say, for retirement, you know what they know
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they should.
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Right, Yeah, And I think it's a multifold thing if
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we think about it in current terms. We have all
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kinds of very productive feedback loops in our life. You know,
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like when I was a little kid, if I poured
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myself a cup of coffee, then I poured too long,
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I'm gonna burn my hand. And I learned like, oh,
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that's a pretty quick, you know, eight twelve second feedback loop.
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And then you know, if if you're listening and you're
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not a regular drinker, and you have three glasses a
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wine tonight, you're gonna feel that tomorrow morning. You know,
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if you talk too harshly or harshly at all your spouse,
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you may quickly find out like all these things like bad.
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If I eat too much food, I start gaining I
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don't know why. I somehow get a free pass for
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eight days, but by day ten, I gay ten pounds.
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So that's a pretty good feedback loop. And that's the
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relatively short timeline for all the feedback loops in our
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life except money, because money not being a good steward
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of it feels basically amazing for decades because look at
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all the Instagram stuff I've got going, and I showed
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off my new whatever, and look at the trip that
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we went on and all of that stuff. It feels great. Now.
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What is differing, and what none of us have really
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adapted to yet, is we used to have the virtue
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among the industrious of Brugality. And what I say by
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industrious is people that were able to entrepreneur themselves into
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an opportunity. They built a ranch, or they opened a bar,
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a local newspaper, et cetera. They were building, you know,
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our country early on. And these people building our country
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if they had means in wealth, it just happened to
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be that everybody could see it. We would know Bonnie
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owns the bank, We would know I have ten thousand
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head of cattle. We could have all that, so we
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could walk around and hold as a virtue that we
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restrained ourselves in what we would consume. And it made
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sense because nobody questioned whether or not Paul Adams was
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a success because of my ten thousand cattle. See it,
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you could see it. But now now that same Paul
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Adams drives because I don't care about this stuff. I
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drive a twenty fifteen Ford. Explore that I have absolutely
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done tremendous damage to dragging it behind my RV across
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the country. And I don't care, but a lot of
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people do. In fact, for many people, it's like an addiction.
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And it's because we have this biological urge that like
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a peacock shaking its tail feathers, you know, in impressing
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the community of males and females around us. It's just
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we're still we're still got biology, and so we're going
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to want to buy the car by the house that
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is quote unquote commiserate with our lifestyle. But we live
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inside a society where commiserate with our lifestyle means spending
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one hundred and five percent of your income, where what
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we have to do to be financially successful is save
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twenty percent percent of gross Yeah, and that has you
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have to live a very very different lifestyle than all
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of your compatriots who make a similar level of income
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that aren't doing it, and they aren't like on average, statistically,
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if you're somebody who's saving, everybody who care about around
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you is probably not. And that's just because most people
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aren't sitting aside an appropriate amount of money and are
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making decisions based upon how their life looks today. Now
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another thing that's developed. If we think about even a
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middle class lifestyle today, that person has access to better
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things in lifestyle than somebody who lived the richest in
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the world two hundred years ago, no kidding, and we like,