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Welcome to the Ask Good Questions Podcasts, broadcasting live every Wednesday,
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six pm Eastern Time on W four CY Radio at
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we will reach for a higher purpose in money and life,
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as well as a focus on health and wellness. Now,
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let's join your host, Anita Bell Anderson, as together we
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start with Asking Good Questions.
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Hello, and welcome to the podcast, to the Ask Good
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Questions podcast. We are delighted that you're here with us today,
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and we have a special guest today with Garrett Gunderson,
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who i'd like to invite to be on now. And
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Garrett is joining us here sometime soon there he comes. Hello, Hello,
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Hello Garrett. Well, first, before we get into it, let
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me give everyone a little you know, I'm sure there's
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going to be quite a few that are going to
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know who you are, but let's give those that are
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meeting you for the first time a little bit of
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information about you. You are the author of ten books,
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including multiple Wall Street Journal bestsellers, and Killing Sacred Cows,
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which we're going to take a lot of our content
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from today, is something that you've just been updating recently,
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and it was original. Book was originally called What Would
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the Rockefellers Do, And it's been consistently among the top
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five titles in Amazon's Wealth management category. He is a speaker.
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But the thing that is most interesting about Garrett is
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that he's been a financial advisor, but he has become
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a stand up comedian. And how long have you been
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doing that, Garrett?
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So as a hobby.
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I started in August of twenty seventeen, just because I
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do a lot of speaking, and I just thought adding
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some humor and it was just like something from the
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time I was five. My mom had a big laugh,
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my uncles were super funny, my dad's got an amazing
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dry sense, of humor, so it always felt like family
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and love. And then I actually filmed the comedy special
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in twenty twenty one that's on Amazon Prime now. So
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it's still kind of a hobby because I'm still mostly
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in this world and game of finance. But if we
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can make you a little bit of fun, we maybe
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get a little bit of laughter along the way. I
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don't think that hurts.
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All the better. So you also said that you enjoy
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time at your cabin. Roughly where's your cabin.
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So it's close to Camas, Utah, which is about thirty
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minutes east of Park City, Utah about the Upper Promo River.
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This is a beautiful, beautiful log cabin on the aspen
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trees everywhere.
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You can also follow him in his blog. I'm going
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to give you some more information about that later and
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so one of the things that you'll be able to
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do is to interact with him on Instagram. So all right, Garrett,
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I've been looking forward to this because this is this
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was a really good book for me about probably I've
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been in the industry for about twenty five years. It
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was probably about halfway through that time that I really
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started going this is not what I thought it was
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going to be. In fact, it was two thousand and
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eight when I went, I don't know what I should
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know to help clients, and so I would love to
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find out where I'd use as a basis of our
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conversation killing sacred cows. But where did the idea come
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from of killing sacred cows? And where where did that
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whole idea of doing that type of book come from?
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Well, I was nineteen ninety eight.
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I started in financial services, and I kind of bought
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into these myths myself the first few years. And it
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was when I was at this event getting this award
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for being like a rookie of the Year in the
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financial services industry, and there's this woman, her name is Nancy,
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and she was actually part of Robert Kiyosaki's advisors. And
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I had just read rich Dad portad and so I'd
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gotten the conversation with her in the hallway and she's like,
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I can't wait till you get to the next level
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of this business, because you're going to find out people
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view money differently, Like, well, what do you mean view
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money differently? And she's like, well, you open to having
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a conversation me asking you some questions. So she asked
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me these questions, and that all my answers were about
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where what I learned growing up, which was I just
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held on to every dollar I had. I was kind
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of a miser, you know. My great grandfather came over
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from Italy and he didn't have enough money to put
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food on the table, became a goatherd and eventually a
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coal miner, and was separated from his family for seven years.
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And so I just thought you had to hold on
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to what you got. And so I'd say, oh, when
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we've saved up this amount of money, we can consider
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having kids. And when we've got this amount of money,
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then we can.
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Start doing this.
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And she's like, after a minute, she goes, I wonder
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what it's like living in the financial prison that you
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built for your wife.
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And I was like, oh, wait, I'm kind of an
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a hole. This is meat like.
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And I just that question really was a trigger to
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start questioning my beliefs, and so I started to really
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everything that I had learned. I just started questioning how
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a business partner lesson. We'd sit down and say, well,
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what does this really mean and what are the potential
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outcomes of it? And what have we been taught and
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what would make it not work and work? And so
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we really just started identifying nine main myths. I'd write
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down everything I thought was a myth, and then I
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would just dissect it, and I took the top nine
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and said, hey, if people could understand these, they would
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just be more prosperous, they'd feel better about money, they
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would they would avoid missteps and mistakes. And so it
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was really this you know, process of we had a
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radio show and we were hosting events, and we were
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just kind of investigating. We were just super curious and
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we were more committed to like what's right? Then who's right?
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Like I was okay, saying maybe I've got this wrong.
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And I just started to find people. I would travel
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in New York and I would interview people that were
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really good at what they did in the world of finance,
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and I just started to recognize, like, wait, I don't
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think that my philosophy is the best one for prosperity.
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So it's almost like a book of a guilty admission
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at first, like oh, this is how I used to
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think it was, and then this is how I think
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it might be. But more importantly, the book was about
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giving people better questions to to like to create their
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own philosophy rather than just.
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Maybe they should ask better questions.
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Huh, that's the thing, ask good questions, right. So it
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really came through that questioning process and curiosity. And it
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was nice because I was young. I didn't have a
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lot of like financial obligations, and I didn't have a
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lot of bills or a bunch of debts, so I
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was able to really adjust things and do things differently.
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And I think it really happened through two factors after that. One,
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I met this guy, Steve Harrip was my professor. He
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managed five billion dollars in municipal bond funds and I
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was in his class. He donated a quarter of a
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million dollars for us to manage, and he just said
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one day, yeah, I'd like to be in better shape.
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So I was like, well, there's my rackuball partner. I'm
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taking him to the gym because then I can spend
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some time with him and learn. And that was like
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truly instrumental. And then I met these three other young
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guys that were just always questioning things as well. So
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we just started forming study groups and we started inviting
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other financial people to our study groups, and they grew
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to be over one hundred and fifty people, And here
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we were. I was in my early twenties, they were
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in their early thirties, and people just started like I
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would debate accounts and I would debate other people on
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my radio show, which helped me to really refine the
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thought processes and get to like the bottom of things
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sort of. I learned what the principles were, not just
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the strategies.
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Well, you were. One of the things that I found
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interesting was the whole idea of the finite pie. Why
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do you think there's so much scarcity thinking out there?
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Because I think that we're trained in scarcity. I think
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that our brain becomes addicted to it from the news
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that we get that shows up with negativity, and that
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people think that it's a competitive zero sum game world.
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One person gets something, the next doesn't, and it's reinforced
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through a lot of negative beliefs that come from childhood
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and from family.
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You know, Oh, that person's.
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Think about what we call money, dirty, filthy, stinking.
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You know, there's just all these phrases.
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I actually wrote an entire five and a half minute
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wrap that I opened my comedy special with about all
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the negative phrases of money that we kind of buy into, right,
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And so I just think it's part of the culture.
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And I think words cast spells, and when we believe
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these things, we look for the evidence of those.
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Yeah, it's powerful. Language is so powerful.
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Yeah, wealth is built or destroyed through language. We speak
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wealth into existence when we're committed to what we say,
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and people that are visionary they don't have evidence of
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what they say sometimes, but it moves people into action
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to a more prosperous thing. But most people are kind
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of governed and limited by three factors. How much time
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do they have, how much money do they have, and
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how much of their owner they have, And so they
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get really caught up in this isolated world of what
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do I know now and what can I accomplish today?
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Versus thinking and co creation, thinking and collaboration, thinking in
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ways to rally people around to do something that would
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be seemingly impossible, but it becomes possible because it's not
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just our skill set, it's others people's skills set. It's
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not just our time, it's other people's time. And if
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it's a good enough, you know, project, if it's a
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good enough idea, the money will follow. Because dollars follow value,
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so you become more about a value creator versus a hoarder.
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I was kind of a hoarder of money. I was
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so miserly.
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I played the game of preservation, saving, sacrificing, delaying, deferring,
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And there's so much in the world to reinforce that.
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We're just taught that budgeting is the key to wealth. Well,
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for things other than budgeting, it could be helpful, and
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it's more about, you know, if it live within your
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means is a good term. But there's three ways to
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do it. One you can budget and cut back, that's one,
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But two you could just be more efficient legally, pay
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less in tax, find out how to pay lesson interest,
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find out whether there's non performing fees or hidden commissions
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that create drag on investments, or design insurances so that
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you don't waste money. There's a lot of waste when
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it comes to the insurance world. So you can be
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more efficient or the game changers to expand your means,
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serve more people, solve bigger problems, add more value.
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Well. One of the things that I learned early on
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when I got into the industry. It was two thousand
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and I had just gone through a terrible divorce that
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was I lost everything, was just completely having to rewrite
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my life, and I joined Northwestern Mutual and so I
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started out midlife as a brand new insurance agent, and
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all I learned was accumulate, accumulate, to accumulate, and then distribute, distribute, distribute.
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So I know you have an alternative to the whole
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accumulation theory.
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Yes, it's acceleration, it's velocity, it's cash flow. I mean,
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entrepreneurs are pretty intimately familiar with cash flow, but not
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everybody is. That's a term that should be just common language,
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even though it's not. And so I like to see
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people create financial independence where they have enough cash flow
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from their assets to cover their expenses. What happens then,
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is every active doll you learn can build more assets
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because it doesn't have to pay for your lifestyle. And
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that's a big advantage instead of waiting for thirty years
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hoping it works out. Not quite sure, I mean, it's
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just a completely different kind of methodology and thought process.
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Well, okay, so just I want to jump right into
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because I feel like this is going to be like
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a big mind shift for a lot of people. Where
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do you think we really find true financial security.
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I actually think that it's it's a mindset. I think
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that financial freedom is when money is not the primary