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Welcome to the Ask Good Questions podcast, broadcasting live every Wednesday,
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6 p.m. Eastern Time on W4CY Radio at W4CY. com. This
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week and every week, we will reach for a higher
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purpose in money and life, as well as a focus
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on health and wellness. Now, let's join your host, Benita
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Bell Anderson, as together we start with asking good questions.
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Welcome to the Ask Good Questions podcast. I'm your host,
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Benita Bell Anderson. And today we are going to ask
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some good questions on how to kick back. And I
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couldn't think of any other guest other than our own
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Dean Piper to help me with this because we're going
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to talk about kicking back in a couple of different ways.
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So I want to invite him to the podcast stage.
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Hello, hello.
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Oh, hello. This is one of my favorite people who
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keeps me on my toes. And because he is who
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he is, I'm going to have him tell us a
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little bit about who he is in case there's anybody
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out there that doesn't know Dean Piper yet. So go
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for it, Dean.
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I'm the pipe man. There's enough said. Don't have to
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say anything else. No, but seriously, whoever did your intro, man,
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he sounds cool. Not me.
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I know.
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That voice sounds familiar. I know.
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I can't tell who it is, but it's just like
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right there. But basically, I am somebody that has multiple personalities.
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Personalities, definitely.
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Without a disorder, just multiple personalities. I think everybody should
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have multiple personalities. I think you learn that from traveling.
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Because when you travel, you see other cultures, you see
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the way other people live, how they think, how they
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look at things. And those are all imprints on you
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throughout your life. I am sure that's what it is
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because I've lived in so many places in my life.
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I've visited so many places. And it's kind of like
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there's this song by Linkin Park, Somewhere I Belong. I'm
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still finding that place. There's no one place on earth
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that has everything that I want. So that's why I travel,
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because here has some places, there has some places. So
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I think people do have to open up their world.
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We live in a sheltered world, especially in the United
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States of America.
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Wow.
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My ex-wife's grandfather never even left his street his whole life.
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And that was having both a wife and a girlfriend.
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That's how some of the South is like, because that's
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where he's in a little town called Woodstock, Virginia he
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was in, which they had a ticker tape parade when
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McDonald's came to town. So I'll tell you where it
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is on the tourist map. It ain't anywhere. But I
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think those are the people you have to meet in
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the world, because... It gives you a different perspective. It
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gives you, you know, we live in this bubble. And
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so I think that's why we're here today. And we're
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going to talk about stuff like that. And especially since
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the fall is coming up.
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Right. It was kind of like I wanted to do something.
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It's kind of like today was like kickback day and
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was like, who else but Dean could help me do that?
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But before we get into it, how did you become
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the pipe man?
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So you really want to hear the whole story?
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No, just the shortened version, Dean.
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Okay, because the whole story is about five hours, but
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I'll give you the short version. It's only about 53 minutes.
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But seriously, though, when I first started doing my show
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many years ago, first it was when I was in
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the financial business, so it was all about investments and
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very serious, and then you know, as a motivational speaker,
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I did to promote my seminars and I had multiple shows.
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I had like my motivational show and then I designed
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a relationship show and I handpicked people for this relationship show.
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And basically I wanted to get the four extreme types.
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There's Me, who has been told by relationships in my
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life or ones that did not become relationships that too nice,
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you know, friend-zoned, stuff like that. And then, you know,
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and hopeless romantic. All things I wear a badge of honor.
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I don't care who likes it or not.
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I'm wondering if I'm on the other end of the
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spectrum from you.
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You might be, you might be. So that's what led
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me to pick three. I handpicked three co-hosts. One was
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this woman who she was a very conservative married woman,
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you know, definitely on the one spectrum. Then there was
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this other female. She was married too, but she was
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a spicy Latina. And so she was the epitome and
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a good friend of mine. So I'm not saying anything
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I haven't said to her face. the epitome of the
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female player. Okay. Well, yeah, those two cover. And then
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I picked this dude. Never. He was 40 years old,
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never had a relationship longer in a year. No, uh,
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you know, no second date. If he doesn't get, you know,
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the thing on the first date that you normally wouldn't get. And, uh, and, uh,
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so we developed that show. Now at one point he
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had to leave the show. So I decided instead of
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replacing him, that I'm going to basically play both roles.
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Because a lot of times on the radio, you're playing
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a role, okay? And so that's where Pipe Man was resurrected,
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I'll say, not born. Because Pipe Man, like, it's funny.
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They interview all kinds of music artists. And they all, like,
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you never want to ask a musician, artists how'd you
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get your band name like they're so sick of that
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it's asked 10 million nobody cares but they always ask
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me how I got the pipe man name and there's
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even songs okay in fact one can play one there's
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songs that they create during an interview okay of what
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they think the pipe man is and simply it's just
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you know the it's just my name it's Piper so
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I have a nickname Pipe Man when I was younger
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so it got resurrected and Pipe Man's like the alter
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ego Pipe Man will say things on the radio that
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Dean would never say in life maybe in the head
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you know because all of us we say stuff in
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our own head yeah so with Pipe Man the filter
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is completely like destroyed beyond belief okay and It is
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a rather funny story, and that's why I do want
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to tell a little bit of it there, because it's... Hey,
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do you know where that song is, Juan? Because I'll
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find it. It's right there. You should play it. Hold on,
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let's play that song first. Let's see if he knows
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where it is. Do-do-do-do. He's trying to change it up.
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I know.
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He's all stressed out now in the background.
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I know. I put him right on the spot, but
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he should be. This is the pipe man. He's got
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a pipe.
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Pipe.
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The pipe man.
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Oh.
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He's the pipe man. Lay that pipe, pipe man.
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Lay that pipe, pipe man. Lay that pipe, pipe man.
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Yeah.
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Yeah. Funky pipe on W4CY radio.
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Totally impromptu. Totally in the middle of an interview and
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there's others like that. But, you know, it's funny. Let
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people's minds go wild, you know, but So really, what's
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really funny about this is it became a good social experiment.
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Even in traveling, it does. Because we were just talking
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about this today on my show. So one time, Rebel,
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who runs my Louisiana studio, she basically came down here
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to help me do media coverage for a concert at
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the fairgrounds. And my daughter was working for me at
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the time. She was here. And we're outside of the
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interview after I'm done with the interview. And there's all these, like,
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women surrounding and stuff. And it's funny because she looks
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at my daughter and she's like, what's up with that?
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And my daughter rolled her eyes at her. Yeah, all
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the women love my dad. But they love Pipe Man.
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That's where the social experiment comes in. And I'll tell
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you how much so. Number one, I have a commercial
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that I run every presidential term. I run for president.
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Pipe Man does. 2016, I decided to write myself in
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as a candidate. I I wrote myself in as a candidate.
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I announced it on my show, and I know at
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least five or six of my listeners voted for me
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because I said so. And they were all females, okay?
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And my commercial, you know, it's basically Bill Clinton saying
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I did not have sexual relations with that woman, voiced over.
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And then Pipe Man comes on and says, elect me, Prez,
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and I will vote. have sexual relations with that woman.
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Vote pipe man for Prez. And so here's the extreme example, though,
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that this is the best of all. The kid's mom,
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we're divorced for about 10 years at this point when
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this happens. Right now it's like over 20. But she,
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my daughter's working at the radio station. She calls up
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my daughter one day. Now let me give you a
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little backstory. When we got divorced, well, when we met,
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Two months before the wedding, she broke up with me
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because I was too nice. And then when we did
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get divorced, she said, I hope you find what you're
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looking for because you're like the most romantic person I've
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ever met. I'm just not into that. Fast forward 10 years,
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calls up my daughter and says, I was listening to
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your dad on the radio. What happened to him? I
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was married to him for 12 years. He was never
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that obnoxious. He's such a player. And then she tried
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to reconcile with me. Because she thought I was now
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a player. I had friends, I've known my whole life,
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women friends, that like, ooh, what happened? I'm playing a role, idiot. Like,
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nothing happened to me. I'm the same person. But like,
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it's no different than a lot of radio personalities. Who
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they are on the radio is not necessarily who they
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are in real life. And it's rather... It's rather sad, too,
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that when I go out and do these music festivals,
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if I meet a woman, like, as Pipe Man, and
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then I want to show them who Dean is, you know,
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they're not interested in that. They want Pipe Man. So
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there's some interesting psychology.
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We're getting way off track here.
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Well, I know. Well, you wanted to know, so there
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it is.
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There it is.
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All right.
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So... We're going to talk about travel. We're going to
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talk about fall color. We're going to talk about hot springs.
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Speaking of, you know, with you and travel, what's the
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most spontaneous thing you've ever done when it's come to travel?
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Before I answer that, I'm going to say that I
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used to sell hot spring spas. So that's what I
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know about hot springs. Like way back. But anyway, no, seriously,
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that's a hard question. The reason it's a hard question
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is spontaneous is my middle name. Like pretty much most
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of it is. But it's funny because people don't get it.
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Spontaneous doesn't mean you don't plan at all. It means
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that you can plan on the fly. And people don't
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understand that.
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I bet you would never guess what mine is.
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You're a planner.
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Huh?
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You're a planner.
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I know, but you'll never guess what my most spontaneous
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moment was.
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Okay. Let me see. I'm going to guess it was
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when you decided to do the show on this network.
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No, actually you'd been beating me up about how good
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this was going to be. So no, this goes way back. Dean,
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you don't know anything about this part of my life.
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I was, I was in college and I was on a,
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a ship going around the world called World Campus Afloat.
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It was an amazing four months on the ocean. And
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my most spontaneous moment was in Thailand, catching a freight train.
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You know how like, you know, just hopping on a car.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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The other side of the island. I would say probably
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that's up there with one of my most spontaneous moments.
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That's a pretty good one.
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That's a pretty good one.
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My first most spontaneous moment would be when I used
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to be in my early 20s and I would wake
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up in the morning more than once, have the day off.
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I worked like six days a week, one day off.
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I'd wake up in the morning, usually in the middle
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of the week because I was in retail. I was
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in college, you know, like... And I would just wake